Online Dating Websites Aren’t Required To Warn That Some Members May Be Murderers (Forbes Cross-Post)

By Eric Goldman

Beckman v., 2013 WL 2355512 (D. Nev. May 29, 2013) and

Okeke v., 2013 N.Y. Slip Op. 23174 (N.Y.City Civ. Ct. May 28, 2013)

shutterstock_103988681.jpgMary Kay Beckman suffered an online dating nightmare.  She met Wade Mitchell Ridley on (a brand of $IACI).  They dated for a little over a week before she broke it off.  Three months later, Ridley “ambushed” Beckman at her home, repeatedly stabbing and kicking her.  Later, we learn that Ridley was suspected of previously murdering an ex-girlfriend.

Ridley was punished for his crimes against Beckman (he was sentenced to 28-70 years in jail).  But what about  Should they also bear some responsibility for Ridley’s attack on Beckman?

Beckman thought so, and she sued  Lawsuits against online dating sites tend to generate widespread press coverage going into detail about the victimization (see, e.g., the N.Y. Daily News story), as stories like Beckman’s prey on common fears about online dating.  Yet, as sympathetic as we might be to Beckman’s plight, her case was doomed from the outset due to 47 USC 230, the law that says websites aren’t liable for user content.  Last week, Beckman’s lawsuit against quietly met its inevitable denouement when the court dismissed it per 47 USC 230.

Beckman argued that she wasn’t suing for Ridley’s posts.  Instead, she said she was suing for failing to protect her from Ridley.  Prior plaintiffs have tried similar arguments to get around Section 230, with zero success.  For example, in Doe v. MySpace (5th Cir. 2008), underage girls on MySpace met predators who committed sexual crimes against the girls offline.  The girls argued that MySpace should have done more to protect them, but the court disagreed:

Their claims are barred by the CDA, notwithstanding their assertion that they only seek to hold MySpace liable for its failure to implement measures that would have prevented Julie Doe from communicating with Solis. Their allegations are merely another way of claiming that MySpace was liable for publishing the communications and they speak to MySpace’s role as a publisher of online third-party-generated content.

Citing 47 USC 230, Doe and another case, the court reaches a similar conclusion:

all of’s conduct must trace back to the publication of third-party user content or profiles. is a website that publishes dating profiles. There is nothing for to negligently misrepresent or negligently fail to warn about other than what a user of the website may find on another user’s profile on the website. Plaintiff may attempt to focus the alleged wrongdoing on, but what plaintiff is actually alleging is that she was eventually harmed because of third-party content published by on its website.

Thus, the court dismissed Beckman’s claim.

Coincidentally, the day before, a New York court independently reached a similar conclusion.  Benjamin Okeke found a user-submitted advertisement on and agreed to buy the car from the seller.  Okeke wired money to a London bank with the understanding that the car would be shipped and the money held in escrow.  No car arrived, and no refund came either.

Okeke sued, but his case went nowhere.  The court says that Section 230 protects from liability for failing “to verify the legitimacy of advertisements and to promptly remove the fraudulent material once it was brought to its attention.”  The argument that “should have employed greater safeguards to ward against fraudulent activity” also failed based on traditional legal doctrines (cite to the old Lunney case).

The and opinions are just the latest rulings applying Section 230 to spirited and creative attempts to hold websites liable for its users’ misdeeds.  Indeed, I’ve never seen a successful “failure to warn” argument make any progress in working around Section 230.

Irrespective of lawsuits’ legal merits, incidents like this are not good publicity for and Experiences like these spook other members and undermine confidence in the sites–something that’s bad for business, even if no lawsuits are filed.  So even though Section 230 says the sites aren’t liable for their users’ actions, most branded websites typically care enough about their reputation that they will voluntarily undertake measures designed to protect their members.

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[Disclosure note: I own a small number of shares in IACI.]